Talk:Meri Brown/@comment-107.193.14.88-20200301105506/@comment-108.162.72.241-20200405111841

I agree with that. I don't believe Meri really wanted to divorce her husband, being the first wife and the only one that was legally married to Kody. Once Robyn was brought into the family wit her children with David Jessop, who had no interest in keeping the children, it was obvious to all, that the children needed to be adopted by Kody to really be fully a part of the family. From what I've watched of the show, Meri, unprompted or asked, voluntarily told the family that she would (reluctanly) divorce Kody, which would then give him the freedom to legally marry Robyn, and then submit to the court, the request that he adopt her children. The judge saw fit to grant that. So, Meri, his first legal wife was left with no legal husband, one child, since she was unable to bear anymore than the one, and was now just a spiritual wife, no longer his first and legal wife. I think that must have been terribly hard on her, and a hard decision to make. But, for the good of the family, she made an enormous sacrifice, and I don't think took a little lightly, and not keeping Meri's feeling in mind as much as he should have. He seemed laser focued on get his "new" family with Robyn in order. I have alway felt bad for Meri, and I don't believe Kody ever understood the sacrifice she made. Honestly, I don't think she ever got over that, although she might try to believe and think she has. She seemed to feel lonely, left out, unappreciated, sad, depressed, unhappy...... Kody was now giving all his attention to his new legal wife and trying to adopt her children, and have babies with her. How do you think Meri would feel. I can totally, well somewhat, see why she was online, talking with someone, and getting the affirmations of the fact that she was still worthy, smart, pretty, caring, interesting, you name it. The catfish played on all of her vulnerablities. But, can Kody see her side? No!